“I had a really ick situation happen earlier this year. I was asked to be part of a telesummit, and of course with my inclusion as a speaker I agreed to do some promotion for the event – including some solo email blasts to my list.
After sending one of these promotions to my list I got a response from a lady who essentially said:
“I don’t believe in what you are promoting here, and so I’m unsubscribing from your ezine [which I totally get and respect] and I’m also unsubscribing from the ezine of the person who connected me to you in the first place [eeek! this person lost a subscriber due to me!].”
Now I get that I can’t please everyone, but the thing is, you guys, is that I KNEW that this was not something I should have promoted. It just wasn’t my “thing” – and no offense to the telesummit folks themselves, it just wasn’t my style, my target or my message.
All of these things I knew the minute I was asked to participate and commit to promoting. BUT I still did it anyway.
Why? I was on automatic “yes” for being asked to speak. I’d fallen prey to the say-yes-to-everything-no-matter-what-it-is syndrome… not sure if that is an actual syndrome, but you get my point.
And because of this I sent something to my list that:
- Was not something I actually believed in or agreed with. (If i’m honest I actually cringed when I saw someone promote this series the year before.)
- Cost someone else – a biz colleague and friend whom I know and respect – a subscriber. That’s the part that hurt the most… I’m OK with me paying for my mistake but someone else also had to pay for it. Ouch

This one person spoke up, and who’s to say how many others didn’t speak up and simply hit the unsub button?
So from now on I’m committed to recommending ONLY stuff from people or companies that:
- I know and like/respect what they have to offer.
- I have had a positive experience with (either knowing them personally, as part of a program or having used their software, etc.).
- I know would be useful to the folks on my list.
- feel *right in my gut* – this has to be the final check cause it’s never wrong.
Oh, and it’s worth mentioning here, too, that affiliate commissions aren’t that important to me. If someone is offering an affiliate commission on something I want to recommend, then great… I’ll take it. And if not, that doesn’t stop me from making a recommendation on something I know you will find valuable.
How about you? What is your criteria for promoting/recommending stuff?”
What would you do?
When it comes to affiliate marketing, many people may support anybody who asks them to promote or who pays high commissions, but is it actually a good thing to promote something that doesn’t fit your own beliefs, your brand and your target market?
Check out the replies on Tina’s Blog here.


With great pride I would like to announce that I have received my certification to become an “official” online business manager. The training took place from March to August under the watchful eyes of Tina Forsyth and Andrea J. Lee, two very well know entitites in the world of multiple streams of income for online businesses.
Wondering if you should hire an Online Business Manager?
Remember when you first started your business and had to wear many hats? You were the cook, hostess, waitress and busboy (so to speak, hehe.) Now that your business is growing, are you still doing the same things as you were in the beginning? Are you still updating your own website? Are you still managing your shopping cart? Are you still answering all your customer service emails?
Today, I was listening to a call with the shift-it coach, Christina Merkley. The call was organised by Tina Forsyth and part of the training for the International Association of Online Business Managers (
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